Best Face Forward by Lorraine Triggs
In the heady days of the Jesus Movement, my church youth group and its sister youth group planned an evangelistic outreach at our high school. We publicized the event with buttons and posters and invited friends to a lunch period meeting on the football field, all in line with the school’s open campus lunch policy.
Right before lunch, the PA crackled: “The meeting on the football field has been canceled.” Turns out that my oldest sister had spent the morning in the principal’s office defending our right to meet on the football field during lunch.
The exasperated principal pointed out to my sister (who was her class valedictorian) that we were the good kids. What were we thinking? The principal sent my sister back to class. Call it the earnestness of youth, but we were surprised at the school’s reaction. The principal was right—we were the good kids, so why pick on us?
That was an early lesson in the world’s response to Christians. A while ago, a mom’s group on social media had a long thread about kids at the high school inviting their friends to—horrors—youth group. One mom complained that her son went to church and liked it. I was sad as I read this thread because some of those Christian kids are probably ones I know and love. Theirs is a harder lesson than mine regarding the world’s response to Christians.
By the time the Apostle John wrote his epistle, he was no stranger to the world’s responses as he wrote to struggling faithful believers, “Do not be surprised, brothers, when the world hates you.” (1 John 3:11) He was only echoing what he heard Jesus say, “If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.” (John 15:19)
It's trending among Christians to zero in on the last part of this verse: “therefore the world hates you.” But to focus on that is to miss the reason why the world hates us: “because you are not of the world.” The writer of Hebrews reminds us that we are strangers and exiles on the earth headed to a city designed and built by God.
So being hated by the world should not come as a surprise. After all, as strangers and exiles, the more we set our minds on the eternal world that is and is to come, the more uncomfortable we’ll be in this world.
However, what does come as a surprise to a world that hates us is when we love them. Ray Van Neste in his commentary on 1 John on The Gospel Coalition site writes: “Love is essential to the nature of God, so one cannot be a child of God without taking on this family resemblance. Christians naturally love others just as babies naturally cry. Love is the distinguishing mark of Christians, which is why itis a terrible tragedy when the Church presents a different face to the world.”
When unbelievers look at us, may people see faces that, as the familiar hymn says, have turned to Jesus and have looked full in his wonderful face. Because it is then that the things of earth will grow strangely dim in the light of his glory and grace.
Let’s put our best face forward to the world—whether it hates us or cozies up to us—a face like Stephen’s in Acts 6:15, where “all who sat in the council saw that his face was like the face of an angel.”